The story
I don't know how interesting it is to anyone other than myself but in any case, here it is, the story of my encounter with my diva (and one of the nicest people you could hope to meet).
I originally waited at the stage door after the Saturday matinée, the third performance of the four I attended. I'd seen a few programme-clutching people hanging around there after the earlier performances, so figured that in Sydney, unlike Melbourne (where the stage door felt like a whole different suburb to the theatre), waiting at the stage door was something which People Do. So I waited and waited on Saturday afternoon, only to discover that after Andrew Goodwin had emerged to greet his friends/family and Nannetta, Quickly and Meg had all gone home, there was really not a great deal happening - nor a single other person waiting there, for any reason. Not sure how long I ought, sensibly to wait, and unwilling to give up, I lingered a good while longer, all the same. But eventually (I think it was an hour or possibly a little over) I managed, in a not exactly ecstatic frame of mind, to drag myself home, determination gradually overtaking despair during the long (long) bus trip to Rozelle.
One chance left, and I'd be flying home the morning after it. So I acted out of character and more bravely than I usually am able. I wrote a very short, not too terribly gushing note, along the lines of "you're wonderful, and if I don't get to say that in person, here it is in writing" and left it at the stage door reception desk on Wednesday morning. Then back to town, Walk the Line to take my mind off it all, home just in time to dress to the nines and get back on the bus for the world's most stressfully slow journey to Circular Quay.
Closing night, experienced from Row C and, for the final act, Row B. As blissful as all the others, enough so to allow me to forget that I was near cripplingly nervous about what I was doing afterwards. Too soon, it finished, and I walked out of the theatre, down the steps, into the world, shaking like an especially fragile leaf. But as soon as I reached the stage door, calm overtook my almost instantly, and I settled in to wait. And wait I did. There was another Goodwin family claque in attendance, including his very proud and very sweet mother whom I chatted with a little. So Fenton left. Nannetta again emerged rather early. After which: nothing. I'd told myself that if I was still there at 12.30, I would really have to force myself to go home. Whether I'd be able to follow through on this was another matter, but that was the resolution.
All manner of people, in and out, but none of them recognisable as involved in the opera. Among them, Billy Connolly, whose show had finished after Falstaff and who had, before leaving, done 45 minutes of media interviews. Around midnight, I think, Falstaff himself left, though it took a while for me to recognise him out of all the make-up. My hopes were revived, but only a little, and time ticked by. Eventually it was 12.30 and I knew I had to go home. I couldn't go home, however, so I didn't. And ten minutes later, through the two sets of glass doors, behind which are the steps to the Green Room, I saw a group heading my way; among them, resplendent in pink and with suitably beautiful bouquet in hand, Yvonne Kenny.
My courage momentarily considered deserting me, but not seriously. She emerged and I went to speak to her. She'd got the note and she asked my name. And was I an opera fan? Yes, but an even bigger you fan. Did I have a programme she could sign for me? No, I didn't. So she passed me the flowers to hold, while she dug a notecard out from her handbag and wrote me a note. And we talked about New Zealand, about Falstaff, about La voix humaine, about high Cs. She introduced me to the colleagues who she'd walked out with, half the cast of the opera. She apologised - as if any apology was at all necessary - again and again for my having waited so long. She handed the note to me and I handed back the flowers, and thanked her, and prepared to say goodbye. "Walk with us". So I did, out past the theatre entrance and staff carpark and a little along Circular Quay, while they all talked shop and I floated, until we reached the point where they would go down to the carpark and I would go straight ahead to my taxi. "Lovely to meet you." Believe me, even better for me, to have met you. "I'm so sorry you had to wait so long." Don't apologise, you're you, that's enough. "I'll see you next time! I'm doing concerts in July if you're interested." Oh don't worry, that's already on the list.
And then Alice Ford, Meg Page and Mistress Quickly waved me goodbye and I went to find a taxi.
